Resources · Before, during, and after divorce
Short, practical guides you can use tonight. No fluff, no lectures.
Pick your stage: Before (the marriage is struggling), During (you're in the middle of a divorce), or After (you're rebuilding). Not sure? Start with the free guide.
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Your first-week game plan for getting back among people after divorce.
Five questions and three minutes for an honest read on the resentment in your marriage.
What to do, and what not to do, in the first three days of separation.
A simple way to answer a hostile text, plus three calm scripts you can copy today.
24 private questions and a score that shows how hot the resentment in your marriage is running.
Week-by-week steps for the first month of separation: your footing, your kids, your money, your people.
28 calm, copy-ready texts for the hot moments, so you never send the one you regret.
A plan for Sunday nights, 11 PM, and 3 AM: what to do, who to call, and what to say.
One question, one walk, one honest answer a day for 30 days.
A 15-minute morning routine and a printable tracker to rebuild who you are.
Three 30-day phases (body, identity, connection) with weekly trackers.
Five guides for before, during, and after divorce, for less than buying them one at a time.
How these work: each guide is a printable PDF, delivered instantly through Gumroad. Read it on your phone or print it out.
These guides are coaching and education. They aren't legal advice, therapy, or medical care. Jay is a Texas attorney, but he isn't your attorney. For your case, talk to a licensed attorney in your state.
Looking for a group? Jay co-founded Lifeboat Austin, a men's divorce support group (separate from this coaching). Weekly Zoom and local Austin community — details at lifeboataustin.com.